“She believed she could, so she did”
Believing in yourself is so important. There is no one else that holds that power other than you yourself. When you feel that you can’t achieve what you want, just believe in yourself. Tell yourself that you can do it. It all comes from two things. The mind and the heart. Telling yourself that you’re strong and capable of achieving anything is the best thing ever.
There really is this power of believing. Like they say, believe to achieve. Set yourself goals. Sometimes, we get brought down by other people’s negativity or our own negative experiences. However, at the same time you’re able to pick yourself up and tell yourself that you can do this by thinking about those that inspire you. Seeing others do well makes me happy and that’s who I want to surround myself around. I want to achieve the best, not anything standard or what everyone else wants. I want to go that extra mile because I’m doing all this for myself.
I want to be able to do things that I thought I would never do. If there is someone or something that is stopping you from achieving your goal, then cut them out. It’s okay to cut someone or something out from your life. Don’t depend on anyone else apart from yourself because it’s your life. You build the bridge you want to cross, not what someone else has built. Think about the good in your life, whether it’s an item, a hobby, an experience or people. Use that as inspiration. My inspiration to achieve is all the bad experiences. Believe it or not, but when I think about the difficult times I have faced, I know that I don’t want to go through all that again and I will do everything in my will power to avoid it and live a better life.
Life isn’t supposed to be perfect. But if you don’t believe in yourself, who will? People want to surround themselves around the best people. People who have clear goals of what they want to achieve in life. It’s your life. You have the power and ability to do what you want, you control how you wish to perceive and tackle things. No matter what happens, you have yourself and that’s the most important thing. I’m still learning that people will come and go in your life. I’m learning that bad things that happen to us, happen for a reason and that it only makes you as a person grow stronger.
I want to be able to grow and look back at how far I’ve come and look at all the things I’ve achieved but it’s only possible when I can finally believe in myself. Everyday I’m accepting myself and my surroundings and if something doesn’t go my way, I will accept that and try to move on.
While I’m here I want to thank all the people in my life for helping me become the person I am today and just tell them how much I appreciate them for being in my life and being there for me. I truly adore my younger sister who is like my best friend. There’s no one else who knows me better and cares as much as my sister and I’m so, so thankful for her. I’m thankful for my family and friends as well because of them, I always push myself to believe in what I can do and that I will achieve my goals.
I also really am thankful for my blogging best friend Harriet. She is the most incredible person ever and I cannot explain how lucky I am to have started blogging and meet this wonderful girl. She is the most kindest person ever and I have the right laughs with her and she is insanely perfect. I do hope to meet her this year and I’m very lucky and grateful to be able to surround myself around someone like Harriet who doesn’t stop believeing in herself as well as others. I also really appreciate my other blogging friend Mia, who is just one of the coolest and loveliest girls ever! I have fallen in love with her blog and she is just one of the sweetest people to talk to and I can’t wait for some future collaborations. Honestly, she’s amazing and I love her!
So we need to learn from our mistakes and appreciate ourselves as well as those who we surround ourselves with. So believe in yourself, you’re more than capable of doing so and your life will flourish and grow. You will grow into a happy, confident and loving person.
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